You've probably heard it said that "healthy things grow". That's not true. Cancer also grows. What we can say for sure is that alive (or dynamic) things grow; whether that growth is beneficial or destructive is a different question.
Remember the medieval quarry worker’s creed: “We who cut mere stones must always be envisioning cathedrals.” You're both the quarry worker, and the stones. The question is, what are you building?
Along with "people are the weakest link", this phrase has been shaping unhealthy cultures in security for years. It's time to stop saying it, and here's why.
What voice do you want to have in the world? Never, ever give yourself so fully to what you're doing now that it undermines your development into who you want to become.